Eric. Here is another way.
I melt down some lube in a old mr. coffee pot on a hot plate under low heat.
I have 6 Bread loaf pans the solid once that don't flex. I get them at Blain's Farm & Fleet they are nice and stiff and have a non stick coating on them. I place then on a flat surface so they are level and I lay 2 or 3 spent primers in the bottom and just pour the melted lube to cover the primers. That is just the right thickness I like to use and it gives me a consistent thickness. when the lube cools in the pan I put them in the freezer and get them cold so the lube shrinks a little and the slab of lube will fall right out of the pan.
When I load the case I figure out what the thickness of the wad stack is, the over the powder, lube and under the bullet.
Lets say the 3 wad stack is 3/8" thick.
Now it comes time to charge the case with powder. Here is where you do a little math and use a calipers or a depth gauge. For example, for making it easy for my math skills

say you want 1/8" to seat the bullet, 1/4" for the wad stack thickness, and say .250" you want to compress the powder. That requires the amount of powder to be compressed 5/8" below the case mouth.
Now fill your case with powder and compress it so you get you .250" of compression. you can do this with a wad over the uncompressed powder so it don't stick the the compression plug but subtract the wad thickness so you hold your depth you want.
Now after the powder is compressed with your wad on the powder take the case and use it to cut the lube wad from the lube slab you made in the bread pan. I lay the lube slab on the bench top with some paper under it and use the case to cut the lube and take a stick pin and poke a hole in it to let the air out so when you push the lube and the under bullet wad down the compressed air leaks out.
I don't use the press to seat the lube wad and the wad that is under the bullet I use the bullet or a dowel to seat it on the over the powder wad.
This way you don't push any lube out between the under bullet wad and get the wad to stick to the bullet base. You don't want the wad and the part of the patch that is folded under the bullet to ride down range with the bullet.
Next you can put a slight taper crimp if you feel you need it or just seat the bullet loose.
I hope I didn't confuse you.

Kurt